Here is something someone posted in Friendster bulletin:

 

When you’re hurt…

It’s okay to date

to hate

to mingle with other people

to drink

to cry

to laugh out loud

to scream, and

to dance wild

you know why?

Because when you’re hurt you don’t owe anybody any explanation on how you choose to repair what that person broke. Live life as you wish..until you’re whole again.

 

Sometimes it’s easy to feel like you’re not the only one in the world who’s struggling, frustrated and unsatisfied. That feeling’s a lie. But if you just hold on, just find the courage to face it all for another day, someone will find you and make it all ok. Because we all need a little help sometimes. Someone who’ll help us listen to the music in the world, to remind us that it won’t always be this way.That someone is out there and that someone will find you. =)

 

Leave someone.. You have that right.. But the least you can do is tell them why.. Because what’s even worse.. What’s even more painful than being abandoned, is knowing you’re not even worth an explanation…

 

Will you wish for more if you have this?

 

A someone who calls almost every minute just to say I love you..

 

Someone who desperately hugs you everytime you fight, who holds your hand and clasp it tightly but gently…

Stares at you as if you’re the only one around,

sings you a song even if he/she doesn’t have a good voice,

pulls you in the rain and

dance with you…

A someone who pulls you back in his/her arms when you’re hurt even after you’ve pushed him/her away and broke his/her heart…

 

Pag minahal mo daw ang isang tao sa maraming dahilan,may ilan ka ding dahilan para siya’y kalimutan.

Pero pag minahal mo ng di mo alam ang dahilan tiyak, di mo din alam kung pano siya makalimutan!..

 

It’s wrong to keep expecting,especially if the situation tells that things aren’t just meant for you.. But are you to be blamed?

When someone just keeps on making you feel that things are right..

 

The Law of Science:

“Nothing is displaced UNLESS

it is replaced.”

translated into

The Law of Love:

“You’ll fall out of love ONLY if

you fall for someone else.”

 

“Too often, the thing you want most is the one thing you can’t have. Desire leaves us heartbroken, it wears us out. Desire can wreck your life, but as tough as wanting something can be. The people who suffer the most, are those who don’t know what they want.”

- Meredith Gray, Grey’s Anatomy

 

“A broken heart is the single greatest pain you will ever have to endure. In fact, the most hurt you can ever imagine; & the one who commits this emotional crime is not someone you hate, it isn’t even someone you dislike..

No, because the only person who is capable of breaking your heart is the one who holds it precariously in their hands, the one with whom you have shared your dreams, your secrets, your fears- the one you love more than anybody else in the world… and therein lies the irony.”

 

The heart sometimes speaks so much feelings to someone we thought was listening, and it hurts so much to realize the person you’ve spoken to never really dared to understand..

..nor even tried to listen well…

if you think that you’re losing someone,

never be afraid because.. if that person does love you a lot, that person will take the risks just to have you…

once again.

 

It’s hard to assume your position in somebody’s life. you might be expecting too much, something far from reality. so learn to weigh the situation. know your stand and keep things in balance. coz the hardest to deal with is failure. and the hardest to endure is pain.

 

When you love, never stick only to what your heart feels. Remember that sometimes, using your brain is a necessity. Next, never use your eyes to cry for the person who hurt you. Instead, use them to search for the right one. Lastly, don’t be scared of breaking up. Keeping a relationship without love is just a waste of time.

 

Take note, love the one who will fight for you and bravely face each and every consequence; someone whom you can call “MINE” rather than “IDEAL”…

 

It’s sad when you fall for someone and finally decided to stop because of the pain.. you tell everyone that you’ve let go and moved on BUT deep inside you know you HAVEN’T, you NEVER did maybe.. you NEVER WILL..

 

Wanna know how weird love in this universe is?

Love is like the star,

she stays with the moon even if

she knows she’s not the only one.

Love is like the moon,

who patiently follows his sun.

Love is like the sun,

who gives her light for the planet

she can’t even touch.

Love is like the planet,

who contents himself by just

viewing the star from afar. ü

 

We don’t look for love because it’s lonely to be watching movies alone.. because it’s sad to eat meals on our own.. because it’s nice to cuddle up with someone on rainy days.

We look for love because we want to be accepted.. for the sloppy way we dress..

for the clumsy way we eat our meals..

for bad hair days & for the simplicity in us.

Love is an act of acceptance..

that with all our imperfections,

we are accepted and loved. =)

 

Maybe Cupid shoot himself

with his own damn arrow..

So that he can feel

how much love hurts.. =s

 

Masayahin akong tao at mapagbiro

but when the time comes

na ang luha ko tumulo

at sinabi kong nasasaktan ako,

wag kang magtaka,

dahil ang mga masayahing tao,

pag nasaktan,

todo!

 

People have different outlooks on love.

But whatever those are,

there’s only one single truth

behind everyone’s heartache:

“Love hurts when GOD knows

we deserve someone else..”

 

It hurts when the person you love

can’t seem to see to feel how much

you’re willing to give and do for them.

I guess that’s just how we love…

more than we can show,

and more than they’ll ever know…

Categories : Inspirations